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@rockstar1679325094 · 25 May 2022
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Bullying my personal experience

if I remember correctly this happened since I was in kindergarten.
I was studying in kindergarten and everything was happy for me until one day they enrolled in my school a certain girl who, despite being newer than me, became friends with two more classmates and convinced them to make my life impossible through insults, humiliations and they even reached the point of physical aggression such as pushing me out of the chair where #bulling #tuition #education #plagen #theplague #bullying #teasing #kids #jeugdigen #qualifications #problem #problem #loss #loss #mourning #grief #suicide

I was just 6 years old, she discriminated against me because of my skin color and they told me that my curly hair was bad hair and that I was sure had bugs, which was not true but since I was a girl I didn't know how to defend myself since there were 3 of them and I was only one this caused me to go down my self-esteem thinking that I was and that my beautiful curly hair was also one day my mom witnessed the mistreatment of me by the girls and took letters in the matter scolding them and telling them not to mess with me to such a surprise that the teacher heard this and called my mother to the school management claiming that my mother I was annoying the minors and that that was not right she was an adult my mom felt helpless and just defended me
But in the case when abusive girls were messing with me, the teacher didn't do anything about it,
One day my dad, after listening to what my mom said, talked to me and told me not to listen to the mockery of the girls that I was very beautiful and had to love me and defend me whatever it was and that was how it was one day I faced the girls and fought with them beating the leader of the taunts and until that day they harassed me later it didn't happen anymore and I understood that if you don't give yourself respect from the beginning and you want no one will.

  • Comments (38)
CreasaNL
Kids are rock hard! Terrible that it took place with you so young
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Rosita&Charlene-Blogs-Creaties
Really the bullying does not make you good. My two children have also suffered the brunt of it and that really destroyed them. Time for something to be done about the bullying.
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Julia 🌻
I remember the first time I stood up for myself to, after years of bullying on one school I wasn't about to let it happen again in my follow up education. The power of loving yourself is the hardest to find, but the strongest to have. I really hate that the... Show more
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Alexis Mata
Although that should not be the answer, but sometimes it touches us when we are filled with patience in life.
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Douglas8
Good thing you could get out of it, although bad the teacher's act for not correcting the girls.
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After Movies
By now there should be better solutions to these problems of bullying in schools, it is unfortunate that since the time this happened to you they have not done much to improve it.
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ppoli61
We have all suffered from episodes of bullying. I remember that they mistreated me, accused me of untrue things and stole my snack. But now the problem has gotten far too serious. It is not just about mockery but actual violence.
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Cristina Elea
The worst thing is that these girls grow up like this without their parents teaching them respect for others.
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nenemc1883
Unfortunately, violence is never the solution to anything, but I'm sure you were already tired and you had to defend yourself in some way or another.
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Maria
we have all somehow been bullied in childhood I was for being white with clear eyes, they called me catira badly bathed, but now it is less tolerable, as it should be
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Kinderworkshops Petra
I don't understand the whole bullying. To belittle someone because someone is different or because it can. Glad it stopped for you.
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Gustavo Perez
Sad to go through those situations and more since childhood. How well now when we grow up we know how to approach these situations in life.
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Gollo
It is good to take the advice that bullying is something that has been it is not good to go through a situation so well that you were able to face this experience.
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naf1971naf
It's good that you managed to get out of the situation successfully @rockstar , that made you stronger and more confident of you, hehehe and what they said you were ugly, it's very far from reality, you are a very pretty girl
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Marygrunge
I read your story and I am very sad that you have had such a bad experience in your life I congratulate you for overcoming yourself and recovering your self-esteem
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Los viajes por Azeroth!
A real nightmare to suffer abuse at an early age that can mark your growth a lot, thank God, it doesn't get worse.
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Freddie Giorno
Very well done by your parents I am glad that decision they made the abuse is something so dreadful that it can happen to a young man
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Diego G.O.
I also suffered a lot of abuse in my childhood I am alive because of God's thanks so I understand all the pain you may have felt
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Luisito Cuica
Experiences of experiences everyone who has suffered from something in the past I am glad to see that they come out of it all
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Gabriela
Girls always tend to fight or get annoyed more often with each other vanity of vanities, well, it was an experience from the past and I'm glad you can talk about it.
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Emanuelstyle
I am glad this story compañera and that you have been able to face all those problems it is sad for those who suffer from this and shut up
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Antonio Escobar
I think that as a human being we need to face our bullyngs, in words and if it has to get to hands then we must defend
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Estrella
A toast to those parents who defend their children with a cloak and sword, I have heard from many who do not believe what their children cry
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Franny
I have suffered it is sad, the truth is that no human being deserves harassment at such early stages of life
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Yesy15
Like you, I have curly hair and today that I have a girl, although I don't pull my hair out, I tell her to accept it as it is so that things like that don't affect her
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Beatriz4
I like what your dad did better, we must prepare the children to accept me as they are and that what I say about them does not matter to them
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alba19
How sad your experience, I also defended my daughters like this until I had a meeting with teachers and representatives
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Yulegonz
I think my reaction was the same as your mother's, I have my girl with curly hair and 6 years old and I imagine if it happens to her.
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william22
What a sad experience, I also suffered from bullin because I was under 5 sisters and the worst of my uncles my mother fought with all of them so they wouldn't tell me a future wey.
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Rudy Siedlecki 🌳
Fortunately, I never had to deal with this myself, even though I often found myself in 'dangerous' neighborhoods. Someone once told me that people are scared of me. I don't know why; I don't hurt a fly. 😇
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Rasher
I have seen it unfortunately while teaching, In this case it is usually taken as a child's play! But it can be something harmful.
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Susann cherry
oh friend sometimes boys can be very cruel and in the case of girls it is more frequent because of vain among them.
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Carolina.kat
I think that something similar happened to many of us, I suffered it in school until the 7th year because I was very thin, I remember that also because of my hair and things like that and how you say you didn't until I started to defend myself that I managed... Show more
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Dewaputra
Yes, it is certainly very important that you are assertive and able to stand up for yourself. If you have the upper hand in that, or can get, then the problem is already almost solved.
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Ingrid
Often it's a kind of jealousy! You are a pretty woman with amazing hair.! Nice that the bullying stopped.
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Flying Eagle
A valuable story, @rockstar . Of course, it's not nice that you've had to go through this. But it's good that you're sharing it now.
If I see you shining in the current study situation, I suspect you have come out stronger.
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vanrupstotvlinder
Thank you for sharing your story. Very brave to share. I will also share this for you.
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